Right is right and wrong is wrong. The work ethic in Asians is something to be adimred BUT there are certain situations where you have to think of yourself. My mother always told me to not work for Koreans (in the US) and she wouldnt even want me to in Korea...but that is the only way I can stay for a year. In this case, you should put yourself and your feelings first and do what you feel is best. And, if you have to leave...Im sure you can get another job somewhere else if you want to come back. Follow your instincts and do what is ultimately better for you! And best wishes for your family in this time. Hopefully, everything works out and I can still meet you next year!Take care, Angela